Forgiveness



Forgiveness is for you, it is not for others, although it is one of the hardest things to do. The benefit is not for those who you forgive but it is for you. It is not easy, but slowly peace of mind and serenity returns to once where only anger and emotional pain used to reside.

Those who are forgiven, face a similar dilemma; whether to continue as if nothing happened or to keep apologizing for their actions. Do not carry guilt.  If forgiveness is given, then accept it and cherish it as a chance to start over, to do better and never repeat the same mistake.

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